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  • | #WeddingWednesday | Brushing up on your wedding etiquette

    Brushing up on your wedding etiquette

    With wedding season in full swing, it's time to brush up on your table manners!  

    The more casual the wedding the less formal the celebration but if you find yourself attending a black tie wedding then you better know how to behave!  Since it never hurts to brush up on etiquette, here are several rules from that we all need to know.  (Plus the bride will appreciate it!)

    As Soon as You're Seated, Put Your Napkin in Your Lap

    Beautiful displays of chargers, menus, and napkins are par for the course at today's weddings, but they make serving a meal a challenge. Once you've snapped a photo, move your menu to the side and put your napkin in your lap. This will allow servers to set down the first course or remove your charger without having to interrupt your conversation with your tablemates to move your napkin.

    Use Utensils from the Outside In

    A multi-course meal often comes with multiple forks, knives, and spoons on either side of your plate. Not sure which to use? Start with the smallest utensils (those set furthest from the plate) first, then work your way in. Leave the fork and spoon set above your plate for last: Those are for dessert, so save them for cake!

    Bread on the Left, Drink on the Right

    With eight to 10 people squeezed around a table, it can be hard to figure out which bread plate is yours and where you should look for your wine glass. Here's a quick way to remember: Hold out your hands and touch your pointer finger and thumb together on each hand. Your left hand will form a "b" (for bread!) and your right will form a "d" (for drink!), so the roll on the left is yours, and you should drink from the glass on your right.

    Your Silverware is a Signal

    Still working on your braised short ribs? If you're putting your fork and knife down, imagine your plate is a clock and set them at 4 o'clock and 7 o'clock. This will let the servers know you're not quite finished. When you are done, place your fork and knife together at 3 o'clock, with the tines of the fork and the tip of the knife at the center of the plate, and the staff will know that they can clear your meal.

  • | Wedding Wednesday | Place cards or escort cards?

    Welcome to Wedding Wednesday!  Today we're answering a question we commonly get...

    What's the difference between place cards and escort cards?

    pressed-flower seating assignments

    Most people actually think they are the same thing but they are in fact different.  While both are used to inform your guests where they will be seated at the reception, place cards are more formal and more specific.  A place card not only tells the guest which table but the EXACT seat as well.

    escort card cocktail flags for nautical-inspired wedding

    If you're looking for a more informal seating arrangement, use escort cards.  These cards will direct everyone to their table number but they are then free to choose their own seat.  Consider it the more casual choice.

    flower-topped escort card display

    Occasionally couples will have both escort cards and place cards.  Or it's totally fine to skip place cards and opt for escort cards.  It just depends on what kind of wedding you're planning on having.  

    No matter what your style is, we're here to help you achieve your dream day!

    { Images from Martha Stewart Weddings Instagram }